Monday, December 31, 2012

#reverb12 Day 31: Love to you, wherever you are NOW

It's hard to know where to start! Is this really the last day of #reverb12?

My feelings are mixed and the answer is mixed too. I write this with equal parts sadness and relief. And, yes, this is the end but it really isn't either.

Of course, after today there will be no more daily prompting under the auspices of #reverb12.  But I also want to shout NO! This is not the end of our time together! 

It's true, many of us will be continuing to work with our prompts well into January, me included. [Anyone feeling even slightly conflicted about this should read Jenna McGuiggan's superb piece Life Isn't A Calendar. Amen, sistah!] And, of course, there will be similar stuff throughout the year as far as my usual I Saw You Dancing posts go.

But beyond the prompts and the tweets and the logistics, I feel so grateful to come through this experience with the most exquisite gift ever: a tribe of true kindreds. And if you're reading this, I am talking about YOU!

You who blogged a response to every single prompt, and tweeted a link to your post as well. You who didn't blog a single thing but read the prompts when you could and thought about them as you went about your day. You who retweeted every one of my prompts and spread the word about #reverb12 to everyone you know. You who responded to the prompts via instagram. You who blogged sometimes, journaled sometimes, did what felt right. You who started out then fell off the wagon. You who joined on the second last day. You who used the prompts as catalysts for the most incredible, searing poetry I have ever read. You who became my friends, on your blogs, via twitter, in life.

Special thanks must go to my beautiful guest prompters: Ruth, Jan, Noël, Lana x2, Bron, Jani, Loukia, and Cam. Cam also made the phenomenal blog button which captured the spirit of #reverb12 so well.

Thank you all. From the bottom of my heart: THANK YOU.

I am humbled and privileged to be starting a new year with you in my corner. Call me cheesy but I honestly believe that, together, we can do anything.

So today, in celebration if this incredible time and space we are inhabiting, here is the final #reverb12 prompt:

Take a moment to yourself, somewhere quiet.

Take a deep breath, and if you have the time/space/inclination do something that has significance for you e.g. light a candle, brew a put of your favourite tea, play your favourite music, whatever.

Think back to where you were all those moons ago, on 1 December when you started #reverb12. All the way back then, I asked: "How are you starting?"

Now, I am not going to ask you "Where are you finishing?" because this is not the end. What I want to ask is, "Where are you now?".

You have spent a month honouring everything that has brought you to this place: the highs, the lows, the messy middles, the exuberant rainbows, the turbulent storms, the fresh strawberries dipped in dark chocolate, the too-tight jeans, the unexpected windfalls, the toddler tantrums (theirs or yours!), all of it.

You have thanked each end every one of these things for the things they have taught you and brought you, and fully know that they reside benignly in your physical, emotional and spiritual being. You know know that while they brought you here and will always be with you, there is no reason for them to hold you back any longer.

You are standing where you are, all that you are, splendidly imperfect and right in the middle of this messy delicious life.

Take another deep breath.

Now quickly and without thinking too much about it, finish these five sentences:

2013 is going to be MY YEAR because...

In 2013, I am going to do...

In 2013, I am going to feel...

In 2013, I am not going to...

In December 2013, I am going to look back and say...

And you'd better believe that I'll be back here in December 2013 for #reverb13. Can't wait to celebrate our incredible year here together again.

Love from the roots of the trees to the lining of the clouds,
Kat x


  1. Meeting you, Kat, has been one of the blessings of 2012. All the best wishes for the new year to you and all the other #reverb12'ers!

  2. My deepest thanks for the last month Kat, it's been a wonderful and hard and much needed reflection for me. My last post is here:

    Happy New Year!

  3. Thanks so much Kat for hosting Reverb 12. I've enjoyed the reflecting, even on those tough questions! Wishing you a wonderful continued journey. Trudy x

  4. This is a lovely post and I love the final questions posed as we stand on the cusp of 2012/2013. I am SO glad you hosted this Kat and I hope you host it again next year - these prompts were wonderful and I was inspired by reading them all!
    Here's to 2013 and abundant possibilities for us all =-)

  5. Kat you visited and commented on my blog during the Blogtober Fest. Your comment came at the right time as I then joined #reverb 13 during December and have managed to catch up and finish my reflective journaling in my blog. Thank you all so much for your consistency and challenge. I am now the very proud blogger who is beginning a New Year feeling as though I'm ready to take it on :)
    Happy New Year to you and all here.

  6. Thank you for this amazing experience! I have been truly honored to be among all of you thoughtful, supportive, vibrant people.

  7. Thanks so much for hosting this challenge, Kat. I know it's not easy to come up with prompts that others may follow.

    I loved taking it to a new level to stretch my creativity by creating a "little piece of art" for each day! You can see them all here along with Day 31:

    I look forward to seeing your responses to the prompts and hope you have a blessed 2013!

  8. I have not done all but have been so thankful for all these wonderful prompts. I will continue to work through them.
    Happy New Year

  9. Thank YOU for letting me be a part of it, and for carrying on this grand tradition! I cannot think of a better hostess for this word party! HAPPY NEW YEAR! xoxo N. :)